She felt the stirrings underneath her skin as the weather grew warmer on this equinox. For the first time in months, the windows were strewn open and she inhaled the invigorating, sweet air into her lungs. The altar was decorated with hyacinth and narcissus, red candle tapers, a wine-filled chalice, and a small crystal bowl containing olive oil. Underneath the altar she placed some other items and tools that would be used during this Ritual once her initiate was properly prepared and ready to participate.
Her excitement was nearly palpable. Maybe it was the fresh spring air or the feeling of her feminine power and energy heightening as she became more in tune with Persephone while setting the stage for tonight's event. Or, maybe it was that somehow, on some intuitive level, she knew this Ritual would mark the beginning of something truly amazing.
When she was ready, she led her initiate to the altar. The circle was cast around them, the candles were lit, and she announced, "This rite shall now begin". She pressed her hands onto his shoulders and guided his naked flesh to the ground so he would be on his knees in front of her.
"You're going to purify yourself for me now," she told him as she held the bowl of oil.
He cupped his palms together and she poured some of the oil into his hands.
"Self purification is the key to inviting the Goddess in and becoming closer to Her", she said softly. "Please consecrate yourself for me."
As instructed, he smeared the oil around his cock until it was slick and shiny.
"Your offering pleases me," she smiled.
She then dipped her own finger into the bowl and rubbed onto his forehead, "Your mind is mine now, and from now on, you will use your thoughts and intellect in ways that are pleasing to me."
Next she asked him to close his eyes while she dipped her finger into the oil and this time rubbed it over his eyelids stating, "Your eyes belong to me and from now on, you will see only the path I wish for you to walk."
She returned the bowl to the altar and picked up the chalice. After her placing her finger into the wine, she held his chin up with one hand and anointed his nose, saying, "From now on, you will be sustained by breathing in my sweet, divine essence."
Next she anointed his lips with wine dripping from her finger tips, "Your mouth belongs to me, and you will use it to speak in ways that please me and I will use it to bring me pleasure in whichever manner I see fit."
She instructed him to stand up while she once again took the bowl of oil.
"Offer yourself to me in your hands," she directed. He held out his cock to her and she rubbed the remaining oil over him, taking his hand with hers. The energy was near divine.
"You have dedicated and consecrated your flesh for me and there is no turning back now," she whispered into his ear. "I own you." With that, she pushed him back onto the altar and took out the tools she had kept beneath the table and placed them beside him. She then climbed on top of him and reached for the red taper candle.
"Your flesh and body are my canvas. From this point on, I can create whatever I wish out of you. But first, I want to mark you and designate your flesh appropriately."
Carefully and methodically, she dripped the red wax over his chest, thighs, legs, cock. His breath sounded so beautiful as he sharply drew it in when the hot drippings burned his skin. She moved over and asked him to look down at his body when she was done marking him.
"Do you see what it says on your flesh?" she asked him.
It said "mine".
She then asked him to sit upright on the altar, staying on his knees and to turn around. "That's right, you are mine...and I will use you and feed off of you and take whatever I need from you. And tonight, on this equinox, I need to feed off of your energy so that Persephone can be brought back from below. Your flesh is the vehicle necessary to make that happen."
She attached the phallic symbol to the harness hidden underneath her skirt and lubricated it, then placed a lubricated finger into his sacred whore hole. His offering to her, to Persephone, was indeed a sacred one. Holding onto him around his waist with one arm and guiding the phallic toy with her free hand, she entered him.
"I plant myself into you...pushing my roots down...searching inside of you for that which will sustain me. I draw this energy out from you and into me. Through my root, into my body," she chanted softly along with his moans and gasps, rocking him into her.
" I fill you, your body, mind and spirit until you overflow".
"I am connected to you now".
She reached around him and placed her hand over his and both were wrapped around his cock.
"Do you feel this? This mingling and melding of your power with mine?" she breathed into his ear.
"Yes, " he barely gasped.
"You are becoming mine...combining with my energy...I am filled with the creative and destructive forces of nature and these energies will serve me well on this day and in the days to come," she continued to writhe into him.
His energy was swirling and she knew the ritual was nearly complete. She slowly pumped in and out of him and wrapped her arms around him so that her hands were cupped together this time, beneath his cock.
"Now anoint me."
He obediently obliged and filled her hands with his overflowing seed. She drank him from her palms and licked her lips. She could feel her power growing stronger.
"Holy water," she grinned at him. And then she kissed him and passed his seed back into his mouth.
"Your sacrifice is pleasing. And now this rite has ended", and with that, she snuffed out the candles.
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Following are excerpts from a show featuring Egyptian cleric Amin Al-Ansari, which aired on Al-Rahma TV on January 26, 2009.
Warning: The show contains extremely disturbing Holocaust footage.
Amin Al-Ansari: Let us examine the civil strife the Jews have caused throughout the world. Of course, we know what problems they caused the Muslims. They have always been like that, but in modern times, they only turned to the Muslims [relatively] late. They went around the world – to the East and West – because they love money, and the West was full of money – in England, France, Germany, and of course, in America, which was still a new country. This was 200 years ago. They focused on these places, and this is why they have spread in America and control the money. They immigrate to any place where there was money.
The Jews spread corruption in the land during World Wars I and II. Let me tell you a very short story, so that you understand their way of thinking. The Jews do not know how to climb from the bottom up. They do not want to meet poor people, and then climb up, in order to reach the rulers of any country. Instead, they go straight to the rulers.
In the 19th century, there was a man called Herzl, who was a scientist and had nothing to do with politics. What did this Theodor Herzl do? He used explosives to invent a weapon. He could have invented anything else – something that would benefit the world – but no, he had to invent explosives, bombs, and missiles. Annihilation underlies their ideology. This Theodor Herzl looked for the most powerful country in the world back then. It was England, which was occupying India, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Egypt, and so on. So he became close to the British prime minister, and said to him: I’ve invented something that could benefit you in your colonialist wars.
Balfour promised them a state for the Jews in the land of Palestine. So the Jews began channeling all their loyalty and support to England. They began traveling all over the world in support of England. What did they do? They waged World War I, and tried to crush all the forces that were fighting England, such as Germany and other countries. They spread corruption in the land – in Czechoslovakia, in Germany, and in the republics of the USSR.
The corruption spread by the Jews was very great. Very great. It got to the point that the rulers themselves had no solution but to annihilate them. This was said even by the rulers of America themselves. You see that America supports Israel, but this is partly because it hates and fears Israel, since the [Jews] are corruptors. Most of the U.S. rulers said to the American people: We’d better give them a place of their own, and keep them and their evil at bay from our European countries. They wanted to places them in a country of their own, far from anything to do with the European peoples.
In a nutshell, the holocausts of the Jews in Germany were because of their own deeds. They were killing Germans, kindling civil strife, inciting the people against their rulers, and corrupting the peoples. “Every time they kindle the fire of war, Allah extinguishes it.” Let me show you what corruption they caused, and what damage they inflicted upon all the countries of the world – upon peoples and governments alike. Let’s watch the holocaust that the Jews underwent, which were Allah’s way of wreaking vengeance upon them. Let’s watch what the German people, or the German army, did to them. This is, of course, a part of the corruption of Germany by the Jews.
Amin Al-Ansari gives running commentary against the backdrop of Holocaust footage
This is the Germany army. It is clear. These are children in the German army. Consecutive wars, which lasted many years, annihilated the people, so the Germans began using children as soldiers.
Look, this is Berlin. The German cities were bombed from all directions, because of the Jews, who were destroying countries Observe the great similarity between Gaza and the German streets back then, even though Germany is a very large country.
These people like to spread corruption, and when they can’t, they look for those who can, and encourage them to do it. Back in those days, it was England that they encouraged to spread corruption. This is Germany, and this is the destruction it suffered in 1945.
Observe these cities, and think about what exactly is happening. These are the armies that Israel encouraged to corrupt and destroy the German army and country. See the rubble and the dead people on the ground. The world was dying – country and civilization was being annihilated. This is what the Jews did. The Germans were, of course, strong. When they realized that the Jews were behind all this, they took revenge on them. They were not weak, as the Muslims are today. They had something different in mind. Let’s watch what Germany did to Israel – or rather, to the Jews – so we can understand that there is no remedy for these people, other than imposing fear and terror on them.
There is one language that the Jews understand – the language of force. If you are stronger than them, they are afraid of you. That is why Allah said: “They fear you in their hearts more than Allah.” Allah said: “Prepare for them whatever force and steeds of war you can, to strike terror in the hearts of Allah’s enemies and your enemies.” The Jews is afraid of you more than he is afraid of God. When the Germans revealed the treachery and the war of the Jews against them, and the fact that they were spreading corruption in their country – let us watch how oppressors are killed by the people they oppressed.
What we have here are German graves, but let’s watch what the Germans do to the Jews. These are corpses of dead humans and the shattered bones of Jews. Here we have a crematorium, in which the Jews were burnt. These are Jews who are being prepared to be burnt. Look, these are Jews dying of hunger or by gas. Look how they round them up and put them on trucks. Note the humiliation on his face, Allah be praised. “Abasement and humiliation were brought down upon them, and they became deserving of Allah’s wrath.”
Look what starvation [the Germans] inflicted upon them. Look what humiliation. These are people being buried alive. Does this look like a human being? He is placed in a ditch to be buried alive. This is a pile of bodies. Ibn Mas’oud was right Look, this is a barbed wire, used to crush their bodies. He and five others will be hanged with a single chain. Concentrate on this, my brothers. Watch this. Look, they are tying five heads together. These are bodies. Here they are drilling a hole in his back with a nail. This child awaits his turn. Watch their humiliation. These are corpses, Allah be praised. The [Jews] are oppressors. They are being deported. Ibn Mas’oud was right when he said: “All the oppressors are killed by those they oppress.” These are bodies, these are dead people, these are skulls. These are the bodies of the Jews being loaded like animals. Watch this tractor clearing away the corpses of the Jews, and these are the refugees awaiting their turn to be killed.
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Following are excerpts from a show featuring Egyptian cleric Amin Al-Ansari, which aired on Al-Rahma TV on January 26, 2009.
Warning: The show contains extremely disturbing Holocaust footage.
Amin Al-Ansari: Let us examine the civil strife the Jews have caused throughout the world. Of course, we know what problems they caused the Muslims. They have always been like that, but in modern times, they only turned to the Muslims [relatively] late. They went around the world – to the East and West – because they love money, and the West was full of money – in England, France, Germany, and of course, in America, which was still a new country. This was 200 years ago. They focused on these places, and this is why they have spread in America and control the money. They immigrate to any place where there was money.
The Jews spread corruption in the land during World Wars I and II. Let me tell you a very short story, so that you understand their way of thinking. The Jews do not know how to climb from the bottom up. They do not want to meet poor people, and then climb up, in order to reach the rulers of any country. Instead, they go straight to the rulers.
In the 19th century, there was a man called Herzl, who was a scientist and had nothing to do with politics. What did this Theodor Herzl do? He used explosives to invent a weapon. He could have invented anything else – something that would benefit the world – but no, he had to invent explosives, bombs, and missiles. Annihilation underlies their ideology. This Theodor Herzl looked for the most powerful country in the world back then. It was England, which was occupying India, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Egypt, and so on. So he became close to the British prime minister, and said to him: I’ve invented something that could benefit you in your colonialist wars.
Balfour promised them a state for the Jews in the land of Palestine. So the Jews began channeling all their loyalty and support to England. They began traveling all over the world in support of England. What did they do? They waged World War I, and tried to crush all the forces that were fighting England, such as Germany and other countries. They spread corruption in the land – in Czechoslovakia, in Germany, and in the republics of the USSR.
The corruption spread by the Jews was very great. Very great. It got to the point that the rulers themselves had no solution but to annihilate them. This was said even by the rulers of America themselves. You see that America supports Israel, but this is partly because it hates and fears Israel, since the [Jews] are corruptors. Most of the U.S. rulers said to the American people: We’d better give them a place of their own, and keep them and their evil at bay from our European countries. They wanted to places them in a country of their own, far from anything to do with the European peoples.
In a nutshell, the holocausts of the Jews in Germany were because of their own deeds. They were killing Germans, kindling civil strife, inciting the people against their rulers, and corrupting the peoples. “Every time they kindle the fire of war, Allah extinguishes it.” Let me show you what corruption they caused, and what damage they inflicted upon all the countries of the world – upon peoples and governments alike. Let’s watch the holocaust that the Jews underwent, which were Allah’s way of wreaking vengeance upon them. Let’s watch what the German people, or the German army, did to them. This is, of course, a part of the corruption of Germany by the Jews.
Amin Al-Ansari gives running commentary against the backdrop of Holocaust footage
This is the Germany army. It is clear. These are children in the German army. Consecutive wars, which lasted many years, annihilated the people, so the Germans began using children as soldiers.
Look, this is Berlin. The German cities were bombed from all directions, because of the Jews, who were destroying countries Observe the great similarity between Gaza and the German streets back then, even though Germany is a very large country.
These people like to spread corruption, and when they can’t, they look for those who can, and encourage them to do it. Back in those days, it was England that they encouraged to spread corruption. This is Germany, and this is the destruction it suffered in 1945.
Observe these cities, and think about what exactly is happening. These are the armies that Israel encouraged to corrupt and destroy the German army and country. See the rubble and the dead people on the ground. The world was dying – country and civilization was being annihilated. This is what the Jews did. The Germans were, of course, strong. When they realized that the Jews were behind all this, they took revenge on them. They were not weak, as the Muslims are today. They had something different in mind. Let’s watch what Germany did to Israel – or rather, to the Jews – so we can understand that there is no remedy for these people, other than imposing fear and terror on them.
There is one language that the Jews understand – the language of force. If you are stronger than them, they are afraid of you. That is why Allah said: “They fear you in their hearts more than Allah.” Allah said: “Prepare for them whatever force and steeds of war you can, to strike terror in the hearts of Allah’s enemies and your enemies.” The Jews is afraid of you more than he is afraid of God. When the Germans revealed the treachery and the war of the Jews against them, and the fact that they were spreading corruption in their country – let us watch how oppressors are killed by the people they oppressed.
What we have here are German graves, but let’s watch what the Germans do to the Jews. These are corpses of dead humans and the shattered bones of Jews. Here we have a crematorium, in which the Jews were burnt. These are Jews who are being prepared to be burnt. Look, these are Jews dying of hunger or by gas. Look how they round them up and put them on trucks. Note the humiliation on his face, Allah be praised. “Abasement and humiliation were brought down upon them, and they became deserving of Allah’s wrath.”
Look what starvation [the Germans] inflicted upon them. Look what humiliation. These are people being buried alive. Does this look like a human being? He is placed in a ditch to be buried alive. This is a pile of bodies. Ibn Mas’oud was right Look, this is a barbed wire, used to crush their bodies. He and five others will be hanged with a single chain. Concentrate on this, my brothers. Watch this. Look, they are tying five heads together. These are bodies. Here they are drilling a hole in his back with a nail. This child awaits his turn. Watch their humiliation. These are corpses, Allah be praised. The [Jews] are oppressors. They are being deported. Ibn Mas’oud was right when he said: “All the oppressors are killed by those they oppress.” These are bodies, these are dead people, these are skulls. These are the bodies of the Jews being loaded like animals. Watch this tractor clearing away the corpses of the Jews, and these are the refugees awaiting their turn to be killed.
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Note: Ive updated a dating post I wrote a couple years ago and posted it on the Open to Hope site. The article is also reprinted below.
10 Dating Tips for Widows and Widowers
Dating again after the death of a spouse can be an awkward experience. It can bring out feelings of guilt, betrayal from the person dating again. It can also bring out feelings of confusion and concern from friends, family, and those who were close to the deceased spouse.
If you’ve lost a spouse and are looking to date again, here are 10 tips to make sure you’re able to successfully navigate the dating waters.
1. When you decide to date again is up to you
There’s no specific time period that one should wait before dating again. Grieving and the process of moving on is something that’s unique to each person. Some people take years, others weeks, and then there are those who choose never to date again. Whatever you do, don’t let others tell you you’re moving too fast or waiting too long. Make sure it’s something you’re really ready to try before taking that step.
I started dating five months after my late wife died. Too soon? There were some friends and family who thought so. But five months was when I felt ready to at least test the dating waters. And thought it took a few dates to get the hang of things, I have no regrets about dating that soon.
2. Make sure you’re dating for the right reasons
If you feel like dating again, take some time to understand why you want to date again. It’s not wrong to date because you’re lonely or desire some company. Single people date for those reasons too. However, if you’re dating because you think it going to somehow fill the void or heal the pain that comes from losing a spouse, it’s not going to happen. However, dating does give you the opportunity to open your heart to another person and chance to experience the unique and exquisite joy that comes with falling in love again.
3. Feeling guilty is natural – at first
The first time I went to dinner with another woman, I felt like I was cheating on my late wife. As we entered the restaurant, I was filled with feelings of guilt and betrayal. Throughout our entire date I kept looking around to see if there was anyone in the restaurant I knew. I thought that if someone saw me out with another woman, the first thing they’d do is run and tell my dead wife what I was up to. It sounds silly, but I couldn’t shake that feeling the entire evening. A week later I went out with someone else. The same feelings of guilt were there only they were less intense. It took about five dates before the feeling went away entirely and I could actually enjoy the company of the woman I was with without feeling guilty.
As you date, feelings of guilt should subside over time – especially when you find that special someone you might want to spend the rest of your life with. If the guilt’s not subsiding, you might not be ready to date again. Give dating a break and try dating again when you might be more up to the task.
4. It’s okay to talk about the deceased spouse – just don’t overdo it
Unless you’re good friends or have known your date previously, he or she is going to be naturally curious about your spouse and previous marriage. And it’s OK to talk about the spouse when you’re first dating someone. Answer questions he or she may have about your marriage but don’t spend all your time talking about the dead or how happy you were. After all your date is the one thats here now. And who knows, he or she might make you incredibly happy for years to come. Constantly talking about the past, may make it seem like you’re not ready to move on and start a new relationship. Showing that you care enough to get to know them can help reassure your date that you’re ready to start a new life with someone else.
5. Your date is not a therapist
Would you like going out with someone who constantly talked about issues she was having in her life? Dating isn’t a therapy session – it’s an opportunity to spend time with someone else and enjoy their company. If you find yourself dating just to talk about the pain in your heart, how much you miss your spouse, or tough times you’re going though, seek professional help. Spending $60 an hour on professional help you much more than spending $60 for dinner and a movie. Besides, your date will have a more memorable night if it’s about him or her then about everything you’re going through.
6. It’s okay to make mistakes when you’re finding your dating legs
When I started dating again, it had been seven years since I had gone out with anyone other than my wife. Because I had a certain comfort level with my first wife, I often found myself forgetting proper dating etiquette such as opening the car door or not walking a date to her door when the date was over.
If you find yourself forgetting simple dating etiquette, don’t worry about it. Most dates would understand if they knew it had been awhile since you dated. But don’t make the same mistake over and over. Learn from them and continue moving forward. You’ll be surprised how fast your dating legs return.
7. Defend your date
You may discover when once the family and friends learn you’re dating again they may not treat this new woman or man in your life very well. The treatment may come in the form of a cold shoulder at family activities or constantly talking about the deceased wife in front of the date. If you have family and friends who are doing this, they need to be told privately, but in a loving manner, that this behavior is not acceptable. If you wouldn’t let family or friends treat your spouse that way, why would you tolerate that behavior toward someone else – especially when your date could become your future spouse? Don’t be afraid to defend your date. If you can’t do that, then you have no business dating again.
8. Realize that not everyone will understand why you’re dating again
There will always be someone who will not understand why you’ve chosen to date again. They may give you a hard time for dating again or have some silly romantic notion that widows and widowers shouldn’t fall in love again. Their options do not matter. All that matters is that you’re ready to date again. You don’t need to justify your actions to them or anyone else.
9. Take things slow
The death of a spouse means losing the intimate physical contact. After awhile we miss the kisses, having someone’s head resting on our shoulder, or the warm body next to us in bed. This lack of physical and emotional intimacy is enough to drive a lot of people into the dating scene. Don’t feel bad if you find yourself missing these things. It’s completely normal.
In the dating world wanting something that was part of our lives for years can become a ticking time bomb. It can force us into a serious relationship before we’re ready. The result: lots of broken hearts and emotional baggage.
If you find that you’re on a date and it’s going well, don’t be afraid to take things slow. This isn’t always easy. Sometimes it’s hard not to throw ourselves at our date if things are going good because we want to be close to someone again. We want that warm body next to ours and have the words “I love you” whispered in our ears. But it can save you and your date a lot of emotional heartache if you wait to make sure what you’re doing is because you love the other person and not because you miss the intimacy that came with your late husband or wife.
10. Make your date feel like the center of the universe
It’s a basic dating rule but it’s often forgotten by widows and widowers. Because we already have someone special in our lives, sometimes we forget to make our date feel special too. Treat your date in such a way that he or she feels like she’s the center of your universe. He or she shouldn’t have to compete against a ghost – even if you only have one date with that person. As long you’re out together, he or she should be the center of your universe.
Even though dating can be awkward and difficult at times, it can also be a lot of fun. There’s no reason being a widow or widower should hold you back from enjoying a night out. Part of the reason we’re here is to live and enjoy life. And dating is a great way to start living again.
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10 Dating Tips for Widows and Widowers
Dating again after the death of a spouse can be an awkward experience. It can bring out feelings of guilt, betrayal from the person dating again. It can also bring out feelings of confusion and concern from friends, family, and those who were close to the deceased spouse.
If you’ve lost a spouse and are looking to date again, here are 10 tips to make sure you’re able to successfully navigate the dating waters.
1. When you decide to date again is up to you
There’s no specific time period that one should wait before dating again. Grieving and the process of moving on is something that’s unique to each person. Some people take years, others weeks, and then there are those who choose never to date again. Whatever you do, don’t let others tell you you’re moving too fast or waiting too long. Make sure it’s something you’re really ready to try before taking that step.
I started dating five months after my late wife died. Too soon? There were some friends and family who thought so. But five months was when I felt ready to at least test the dating waters. And thought it took a few dates to get the hang of things, I have no regrets about dating that soon.
2. Make sure you’re dating for the right reasons
If you feel like dating again, take some time to understand why you want to date again. It’s not wrong to date because you’re lonely or desire some company. Single people date for those reasons too. However, if you’re dating because you think it going to somehow fill the void or heal the pain that comes from losing a spouse, it’s not going to happen. However, dating does give you the opportunity to open your heart to another person and chance to experience the unique and exquisite joy that comes with falling in love again.
3. Feeling guilty is natural – at first
The first time I went to dinner with another woman, I felt like I was cheating on my late wife. As we entered the restaurant, I was filled with feelings of guilt and betrayal. Throughout our entire date I kept looking around to see if there was anyone in the restaurant I knew. I thought that if someone saw me out with another woman, the first thing they’d do is run and tell my dead wife what I was up to. It sounds silly, but I couldn’t shake that feeling the entire evening. A week later I went out with someone else. The same feelings of guilt were there only they were less intense. It took about five dates before the feeling went away entirely and I could actually enjoy the company of the woman I was with without feeling guilty.
As you date, feelings of guilt should subside over time – especially when you find that special someone you might want to spend the rest of your life with. If the guilt’s not subsiding, you might not be ready to date again. Give dating a break and try dating again when you might be more up to the task.
4. It’s okay to talk about the deceased spouse – just don’t overdo it
Unless you’re good friends or have known your date previously, he or she is going to be naturally curious about your spouse and previous marriage. And it’s OK to talk about the spouse when you’re first dating someone. Answer questions he or she may have about your marriage but don’t spend all your time talking about the dead or how happy you were. After all your date is the one thats here now. And who knows, he or she might make you incredibly happy for years to come. Constantly talking about the past, may make it seem like you’re not ready to move on and start a new relationship. Showing that you care enough to get to know them can help reassure your date that you’re ready to start a new life with someone else.
5. Your date is not a therapist
Would you like going out with someone who constantly talked about issues she was having in her life? Dating isn’t a therapy session – it’s an opportunity to spend time with someone else and enjoy their company. If you find yourself dating just to talk about the pain in your heart, how much you miss your spouse, or tough times you’re going though, seek professional help. Spending $60 an hour on professional help you much more than spending $60 for dinner and a movie. Besides, your date will have a more memorable night if it’s about him or her then about everything you’re going through.
6. It’s okay to make mistakes when you’re finding your dating legs
When I started dating again, it had been seven years since I had gone out with anyone other than my wife. Because I had a certain comfort level with my first wife, I often found myself forgetting proper dating etiquette such as opening the car door or not walking a date to her door when the date was over.
If you find yourself forgetting simple dating etiquette, don’t worry about it. Most dates would understand if they knew it had been awhile since you dated. But don’t make the same mistake over and over. Learn from them and continue moving forward. You’ll be surprised how fast your dating legs return.
7. Defend your date
You may discover when once the family and friends learn you’re dating again they may not treat this new woman or man in your life very well. The treatment may come in the form of a cold shoulder at family activities or constantly talking about the deceased wife in front of the date. If you have family and friends who are doing this, they need to be told privately, but in a loving manner, that this behavior is not acceptable. If you wouldn’t let family or friends treat your spouse that way, why would you tolerate that behavior toward someone else – especially when your date could become your future spouse? Don’t be afraid to defend your date. If you can’t do that, then you have no business dating again.
8. Realize that not everyone will understand why you’re dating again
There will always be someone who will not understand why you’ve chosen to date again. They may give you a hard time for dating again or have some silly romantic notion that widows and widowers shouldn’t fall in love again. Their options do not matter. All that matters is that you’re ready to date again. You don’t need to justify your actions to them or anyone else.
9. Take things slow
The death of a spouse means losing the intimate physical contact. After awhile we miss the kisses, having someone’s head resting on our shoulder, or the warm body next to us in bed. This lack of physical and emotional intimacy is enough to drive a lot of people into the dating scene. Don’t feel bad if you find yourself missing these things. It’s completely normal.
In the dating world wanting something that was part of our lives for years can become a ticking time bomb. It can force us into a serious relationship before we’re ready. The result: lots of broken hearts and emotional baggage.
If you find that you’re on a date and it’s going well, don’t be afraid to take things slow. This isn’t always easy. Sometimes it’s hard not to throw ourselves at our date if things are going good because we want to be close to someone again. We want that warm body next to ours and have the words “I love you” whispered in our ears. But it can save you and your date a lot of emotional heartache if you wait to make sure what you’re doing is because you love the other person and not because you miss the intimacy that came with your late husband or wife.
10. Make your date feel like the center of the universe
It’s a basic dating rule but it’s often forgotten by widows and widowers. Because we already have someone special in our lives, sometimes we forget to make our date feel special too. Treat your date in such a way that he or she feels like she’s the center of your universe. He or she shouldn’t have to compete against a ghost – even if you only have one date with that person. As long you’re out together, he or she should be the center of your universe.
Even though dating can be awkward and difficult at times, it can also be a lot of fun. There’s no reason being a widow or widower should hold you back from enjoying a night out. Part of the reason we’re here is to live and enjoy life. And dating is a great way to start living again.
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I dont think that the correlation between guns being readily available to any Tom, Dick and Harry, and the high level of gun crime in the US, is an accident.
Personally, I hate guns. Yeah, you should be able to protect yourself in your home, but I dont see why that has to involve keeping a gun. I know that owning a gun is part of the US constitution, but in my mind, just because you can, doesnt mean you should. And dont get me started on people teaching their kids to shoot guns.
When I was in the States a couple of years ago, I was appalled that guns were sold in the same place as a tin of baked beans. I just couldnt get my head round it.
The sad thing for me is that gun crime in Britain seems to be growing exponentially, but Im guessing that if we started arming our police as a matter of course, those numbers would probably increase tenfold.
Every time I hear about a shooting incident, especially one that takes so many lives, my stance on guns is strengthened.
Guns are dangerous, and yes, they kill people. If there was ever a vote in this country to decide whether to make guns accessible to the ordinary man on the street, I would definitely vote no.
What say you? What are your thoughts on gun ownership? Do you in fact own a gun? If so, what are your main reasons for having one in the house.
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Personally, I hate guns. Yeah, you should be able to protect yourself in your home, but I dont see why that has to involve keeping a gun. I know that owning a gun is part of the US constitution, but in my mind, just because you can, doesnt mean you should. And dont get me started on people teaching their kids to shoot guns.
When I was in the States a couple of years ago, I was appalled that guns were sold in the same place as a tin of baked beans. I just couldnt get my head round it.
The sad thing for me is that gun crime in Britain seems to be growing exponentially, but Im guessing that if we started arming our police as a matter of course, those numbers would probably increase tenfold.
Every time I hear about a shooting incident, especially one that takes so many lives, my stance on guns is strengthened.
Guns are dangerous, and yes, they kill people. If there was ever a vote in this country to decide whether to make guns accessible to the ordinary man on the street, I would definitely vote no.
What say you? What are your thoughts on gun ownership? Do you in fact own a gun? If so, what are your main reasons for having one in the house.
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Here are my tips for selecting and using affiliate programs. After this are links to some of the best affiliate programs I have found:
Don't confuse affiliate programs with multi-level marketing programs. There are a couple of good affiliate programs that require you to spend money to join, but most do not. If you have to purchase product or recruit others to spend money to join the program, then this is not an affiliate program --it is a multi-level marketing program masquerading as one.
Pick an affiliate program that has something to do with your business. For example, if you sell ladies clothing on eBay you would not want to recommend products that would be of interest to women.
The best programs have two tiers. The first tier is where you get paid for sales that you refer people to. The second tier is where you get paid (a smaller amount) if someone signs up as an affiliate under you and they refer a sale. For example, in my program if you sell one of my books you earn 40%. If someone signs up as an affiliate under you and they refer the sale of one of my book, then you earn 10% of that sale.
Be wary of affiliate programs that have more than two tiers. There are a couple of good affiliate programs that have three tiers but they are rare. Whenever I see a program with three or more tiers I am very hesitant to join. Why? If they are paying out more than 50% commissions that means what the customer is getting can't be that good. As I said, there are exceptions to this but they are rare.
Look for affiliate programs that have lots of marketing tools such as pre-written emails, free articles, e-books you can give away and several banner designs. The more tools an affiliate program has, the more likely you will find one that will work in your market.
Always buy one of the products and evaluate it yourself before recommending it to others. Some affiliate programs out there are pretty crappy, while others are no more than information scams. When you recommend a product or a program, your reputation is on the line. You don't want people coming back to you complaining about something you recommend.
Always double check your affiliate links. I see broken affiliate links all the time. When this happens the customer is usually directed to the web site but you don't get your commission and the affiliate program owner usually has no way to determine who should get credit for the sale.
advertising network: A service where ads are bought centrally through one company, and displayed on multiple Web sites that contract with that company for a share of revenue generated by ads served on their site.algorithm: The technology that a search engine uses to deliver results to a query. Search engines utilize several algorithms in tandem to deliver a page of search results or keyword-targeted search ads.
click through rate (CTR): The rate (expressed in a percentage) at which users click on an ad. This is calculated by dividing the total number of clicks by the total number of ad impressions. CTR is an important metric for Internet marketers to measure the performance of an ad campaign.
content network: A group of Web sites that agree to show ads on their site, served by an ad network, in exchange for a share of the revenue generated by those ads. For example: Google AdSense or the Yahoo Publisher Network.
contextual advertising: Advertising that is targeted to a Web page based on the pages content, keywords, or category. Ads in most content networks are targeted contextually.
cost per action (CPA): A form of advertising where payment is dependent upon an action that a user performs as a result of the ad. The action could be making a purchase, signing up for a newsletter, or asking for a follow-up call. An advertiser pays a set fee to the publisher based on the number of visitors who take action. Many affiliate programs use the CPA model.
cost per click (CPC): Also called Pay per Click (PPC). A performance-based advertising model where the advertiser pays a set fee for every click on an ad. The majority of text ads sold by search engines are billed under the CPC model.
cost per thousand (CPM): An ad model that charges advertisers every time an ad is displayed to a user, whether the user clicks on the ad or not. The fee is based on every 1,000 ad impressions (M is the Roman numeral for 1,000). Most display ads, such as banner ads, are sold by CPM.
geo-targeting: Delivery of ads specific to the geographic location of the searcher.
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It's April 1st. No,I'm not celebrating April Fool's Day. I'n happy that it's getting closer to summertime. Spring is in the air. At least it is where I live. So, in hopes of warm weather - here's an excerpt from "Hot Summer Nights." HSN is an anthology with Bonnie Dee and Rusty Wicks.
I cant eat another bite. Delilah leaned back, replete. She wasnt overly full, but satisfied. It was a body signal shed learned to identify over the last year, when to tell she was no longer hungry.
One more shrimp. Itll help soak up your second margarita.m not drunk. But she was a little light-headed. Having a mixed drink with her meal was a rarity for her. And if I were, a shrimp wouldnt help.Just one. He held the tidbit up to her lips. Giving in, she opened her mouth.
Their eyes met as he placed the shrimp in her mouth. Within the span of a heartbeat, the mood changed. A thrill of awareness shot through her. Here was an incredibly attractive man, hand-feeding her. She chewed slowly, eyes locked with his. She had insisted she wasnt intoxicated, but at that moment she felt as though shed drunk an entire pitcher of margaritas. Her head spun, and she felt overly warm.
I want to hold you next to me. Dance with me. The heat in his eyes lit a similar flame in her. She nodded her consent.
Taking her hand, he pulled her from their table and led her to the dance floor. The band started covering Los Lobos Beautiful Maria of My Soul. There were a few others out on the tiny floor. Delilah couldnt have cared less. All that mattered was that he was holding her in his arms as they swayed to the sultry beat. She laid her head against his chest and relaxed into his embrace. As they moved around the floor, the Spanish words poured over them like liquid, beautiful but unintelligible to her. John started humming and dipped his head to her ear and softly began to sing along in English.
In the sunlight of your smile, a shudder worked its way through her body as his breath whispered into her hair and tiny tendrils of heat worked their way through he,. in the summer of our life, in the magic of love, storms above scattered away.
The hoarseness of his voice, the tenderness of his tone, the feel of his lips brushing along her ear, were incredibly sexy. Her womb clenched, and wetness pooled between her thighs. He was seducing her on the dance floor. It was wonderful, thrilling, and she didnt want the music to end.
The band rolled one song into the next, this one a languid guitar solo. Delilah lifted her head to look up at him. Her gaze landed on his lips and stopped. The memory of their touch came flooding back to her, and she wanted to feel them pressed against hers again. Wanted to test their softness, and taste the man behind them. She closed her eyes, giving him silent permission to kiss her.
I can see your pulse, his voice was low, husky, right there. He ran a gentle fingertip along the side of her neck to its base, tracing her blood flow. Eyes popping open, she sucked in a sharp breath, his touch like an electric shock.
Are you nervous or excited?
Both. She was breathing in shallow pants, barely conscious of their movements around the floor.
When she didnt answer, he continued. Maybe a little of both, huh? He traced her collarbone, stopping at the dip in her throat. His touch was almost nonexistent, yet she felt it to her bones. Goose bumps popped up along her arms, and her nipples tingled and hardened.
ve made my living reading other peoples body language. You could say Im an expert at it. She felt mesmerized by the expression in his eyes, the tone of his voice. Do you know what youre bodys saying to me? The rough tip of his forefinger traced the skin of her upper chest revealed through the vee of her tunic.
s telling me you like my touch.
She did. And she wanted more than just the stroke of his callused fingertip. She wanted to taste him again. She wanted to feel his body pressed up against hers as their tongues mated. Saliva flooded her mouth at the thought, and she swallowed heavily.
Using the backs of his fingers, he skimmed the curve of her breast. Your nipple is hard, telling me youre excited. He brushed the hardened tip, and it was as if an electrical wire connected her nipple and her womb.
His hands drifted down to cup her hips and pull her closer. m excited, too. I want you. I want to see you, feel you, taste the sweetness of you.
She could feel his hardened length pressing into her stomach, and her sex spasmed and began to grow even wetter. Her knees weakened at his erotic words, and she dug her fingers into his shoulders, holding on for dear life.
Can I have you, sweet Delilah? Will you give yourself to me?
Yes. He could have her right now. Any thought shed had about not sleeping with him on the first date had completely disappeared. She wanted him, and she was going to have as much of him as she could. Tonight. Unable to speak, she simply nodded her head.
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I cant eat another bite. Delilah leaned back, replete. She wasnt overly full, but satisfied. It was a body signal shed learned to identify over the last year, when to tell she was no longer hungry.
One more shrimp. Itll help soak up your second margarita.m not drunk. But she was a little light-headed. Having a mixed drink with her meal was a rarity for her. And if I were, a shrimp wouldnt help.Just one. He held the tidbit up to her lips. Giving in, she opened her mouth.
Their eyes met as he placed the shrimp in her mouth. Within the span of a heartbeat, the mood changed. A thrill of awareness shot through her. Here was an incredibly attractive man, hand-feeding her. She chewed slowly, eyes locked with his. She had insisted she wasnt intoxicated, but at that moment she felt as though shed drunk an entire pitcher of margaritas. Her head spun, and she felt overly warm.
I want to hold you next to me. Dance with me. The heat in his eyes lit a similar flame in her. She nodded her consent.
Taking her hand, he pulled her from their table and led her to the dance floor. The band started covering Los Lobos Beautiful Maria of My Soul. There were a few others out on the tiny floor. Delilah couldnt have cared less. All that mattered was that he was holding her in his arms as they swayed to the sultry beat. She laid her head against his chest and relaxed into his embrace. As they moved around the floor, the Spanish words poured over them like liquid, beautiful but unintelligible to her. John started humming and dipped his head to her ear and softly began to sing along in English.
In the sunlight of your smile, a shudder worked its way through her body as his breath whispered into her hair and tiny tendrils of heat worked their way through he,. in the summer of our life, in the magic of love, storms above scattered away.
The hoarseness of his voice, the tenderness of his tone, the feel of his lips brushing along her ear, were incredibly sexy. Her womb clenched, and wetness pooled between her thighs. He was seducing her on the dance floor. It was wonderful, thrilling, and she didnt want the music to end.
The band rolled one song into the next, this one a languid guitar solo. Delilah lifted her head to look up at him. Her gaze landed on his lips and stopped. The memory of their touch came flooding back to her, and she wanted to feel them pressed against hers again. Wanted to test their softness, and taste the man behind them. She closed her eyes, giving him silent permission to kiss her.
I can see your pulse, his voice was low, husky, right there. He ran a gentle fingertip along the side of her neck to its base, tracing her blood flow. Eyes popping open, she sucked in a sharp breath, his touch like an electric shock.
Are you nervous or excited?
Both. She was breathing in shallow pants, barely conscious of their movements around the floor.
When she didnt answer, he continued. Maybe a little of both, huh? He traced her collarbone, stopping at the dip in her throat. His touch was almost nonexistent, yet she felt it to her bones. Goose bumps popped up along her arms, and her nipples tingled and hardened.
ve made my living reading other peoples body language. You could say Im an expert at it. She felt mesmerized by the expression in his eyes, the tone of his voice. Do you know what youre bodys saying to me? The rough tip of his forefinger traced the skin of her upper chest revealed through the vee of her tunic.
s telling me you like my touch.
She did. And she wanted more than just the stroke of his callused fingertip. She wanted to taste him again. She wanted to feel his body pressed up against hers as their tongues mated. Saliva flooded her mouth at the thought, and she swallowed heavily.
Using the backs of his fingers, he skimmed the curve of her breast. Your nipple is hard, telling me youre excited. He brushed the hardened tip, and it was as if an electrical wire connected her nipple and her womb.
His hands drifted down to cup her hips and pull her closer. m excited, too. I want you. I want to see you, feel you, taste the sweetness of you.
She could feel his hardened length pressing into her stomach, and her sex spasmed and began to grow even wetter. Her knees weakened at his erotic words, and she dug her fingers into his shoulders, holding on for dear life.
Can I have you, sweet Delilah? Will you give yourself to me?
Yes. He could have her right now. Any thought shed had about not sleeping with him on the first date had completely disappeared. She wanted him, and she was going to have as much of him as she could. Tonight. Unable to speak, she simply nodded her head.
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The problem with choosing a dating service is choice too much of it! There are hundreds of services. To choose a dating service thats right for you, you need to be clear about what exactly youre looking for. As a newcomer to online dating, unfamiliar with all the options, you might be a little hazy on this front. Heres a rundown of the main areas in which dating services differ which will help you draw up a dating service wish list to compare sites to.
One of the most obvious things to think about when choosing a dating service is what kind of relationship(s) youre looking for.
Some services, including top dating sites like Yahoo! Personals (singles dating) and eHarmony (soulmates) focus on one type of relationship only. The advantage of choosing a dating service thats dedicated to a particular type of relationship is that everyone will be on exactly the same page as you are in terms of intentions.
If youre not clear what your intentions are, you might be better choosing a dating service where members can pursue different types of relationships within the same site. Again theres no shortage of choice. However, at some multi-relationship services its not immediately clear whos looking for what and up to you to figure it out, using the search tools. If this sounds like trouble (and it can be), choose a service like Lavalife which has separate communities within the site for each type of relationship.
Think about the type of person you want to meet. Are you open-minded, in which case a mainstream service will be fine, or do you have a lengthy list of must haves regarding your perfect match?
If you have set ideas about the type of person youd like to meet, finding them in a mainstream service could be like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack. (By, I mean that members are as diverse as the general population.) Instead, consider choosing a relationship service that specializes in bringing people together who have something very specific in common religion, political beliefs, ethnicity, body size, certain lifestyles, you name it.
Simply run a search for dating (or matchmaking, or marriage) plus whatever youre looking for (vegetarian, republican, biker) and its almost certain youll find a relationship service to match.
Dating sites have thousands if not millions of members so good search tools are important. However, its still up to you search out your perfect match and not everyone has time for this. Luckily many dating services have matchmaking features (more sophisticated search tools) that will help you find the one quickly and easily.
Matchmaking features range from the very simple, based on profiles and/or basic wish lists, to the sophisticated, based on personality and other tests as well as more detailed profiles and wish lists. Unless youre unusually picky (or just very unusual), these one-click options will typically churn up a good selection of possible matches on a regular basis popular dating services attract many new members a day. You can usually opt to have these matchmaking searches run automatically on a regular basis and receive new match details by email another time-saver.
At some services, matchmaking features are part of a complete matchmaking service where the selection process is much stricter, usually because theyre geared towards serious relationships. Typically youll receive just a handful of potential partners over a length of time. For example, eHarmony (designed to help people into marriage) advises clients not to expect more than one or two matches a month. To accept this level of matchmaking you have to be happy with the idea of letting the have the final say about whos right for you and whos not.
Online dating services are about much more than dating. Theyre also an opportunity to gain some valuable insights into yourself and the type of person youre looking to meet which could help improve your love life, online and off. If this appeals to you, choose a dating service with personality and other tests for members to take.
For the most part, larger, well established online dating services have the most insightful and detailed personality tests because they have more resources to put into their design. Almost all personality tests are free to take and at many sites matchmaking tools draw on the results to find members who are compatible with each other. So, by taking several tests and judging the results, youll get a good idea of which site is going to do the best job of helping you find your perfect match. After all, if the results are a true reflection of what youre like, theyll be a true reflection of potential matches too.
There are two levels of communication to consider when choosing a dating service what you get for free and what you get as a paying member. On both fronts, some services offer a lot more than others.
Free communications matter because they let you get to know someone, or at least that the interest is mutual, before you spring for a subscription. (A subscription will let you communicate as much as you like.) At most services, free communications are limited to flirty icons and preset messages that members send to each other, but search around. Some services are much more generous than others.
Once you subscribe, the norm for communicating is by on-site email and instant messaging. Many of the top dating services, Yahoo! Personals included, have stuck with this simple set up and show no sign of changing any time soon. Others, like Match.com, are continuously adopting new technologies to offer members more communications options. Typically youll pay more so think about whether or not you really need to to be able to access their services anytime, anywhere.
Think about what sort of experience youd like to have with online dating services. Do you intend to focus on finding your perfect match or would you like to enjoy other activities as well? Many services offer entertainment features including light-hearted quizzes and polls, contests, articles and newsletters, as well as chat rooms and the option to sign up to meet new friends as well as dates.
If the idea of meeting someone online then having to meet them face-to-face at some stage is a little intimidating, look for a dating service that helps members meet and mingle, casually and as part of a group, offline too. Though some dating services go as far as offering singles holidays, offline activities usually involve meeting for concerts, shows and other events in your area or elsewhere.
You can get that all-important for someone in relaxed atmosphere with plenty of food for conversation and make as much or as little of the occasion as you like. If you havent met someone yet, offline activities are an opportunity to meet someone you might like to continue chatting with online, with the advantage that youve already met.
If youre away from your native country, would like to chat in your native language or are planning to relocate or travel to a different country, some of the more established and successful online dating services have extended their services into countries other than the US. For example, Yahoo! Personals has a new Canadian service while Match.com is live in 27 different countries.
Most online dating services charge about the same for a subscription between $20 and $25 a month so cost isnt going to be much of a deciding factor when choosing a dating service. Instead, look for value services might charge about the same but there are big differences in what you get for your money. Also, check out payment options. Several dating services accept money orders and checks as well as the usual credit cards.
Find out what discounts will be available if you sign up for several months at once, and if any special offers are available. Finally on this one, look for free trials and try out all the extra subscriber features before committing to a subscription.
When youve drawn up a checklist of what youd like in a dating service (and hopefully this article has helped) choosing a dating service will be a lot easier. You can compare your checklist to dating service reviews and, for more specific details, explore FAQs, help pages and take a tour options (all good dating services have these). And dont forget, signing up is free and you can usually explore sites without having to post a profile first. Most of all, though its important to choose a dating service thats right for you, one youll enjoy using and are mostly like to have success with, choosing a dating service should be fun. If one dating service doesnt work out for you, move on and choose another!
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One of the most obvious things to think about when choosing a dating service is what kind of relationship(s) youre looking for.
Some services, including top dating sites like Yahoo! Personals (singles dating) and eHarmony (soulmates) focus on one type of relationship only. The advantage of choosing a dating service thats dedicated to a particular type of relationship is that everyone will be on exactly the same page as you are in terms of intentions.
If youre not clear what your intentions are, you might be better choosing a dating service where members can pursue different types of relationships within the same site. Again theres no shortage of choice. However, at some multi-relationship services its not immediately clear whos looking for what and up to you to figure it out, using the search tools. If this sounds like trouble (and it can be), choose a service like Lavalife which has separate communities within the site for each type of relationship.
Think about the type of person you want to meet. Are you open-minded, in which case a mainstream service will be fine, or do you have a lengthy list of must haves regarding your perfect match?
If you have set ideas about the type of person youd like to meet, finding them in a mainstream service could be like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack. (By, I mean that members are as diverse as the general population.) Instead, consider choosing a relationship service that specializes in bringing people together who have something very specific in common religion, political beliefs, ethnicity, body size, certain lifestyles, you name it.
Simply run a search for dating (or matchmaking, or marriage) plus whatever youre looking for (vegetarian, republican, biker) and its almost certain youll find a relationship service to match.
Dating sites have thousands if not millions of members so good search tools are important. However, its still up to you search out your perfect match and not everyone has time for this. Luckily many dating services have matchmaking features (more sophisticated search tools) that will help you find the one quickly and easily.
Matchmaking features range from the very simple, based on profiles and/or basic wish lists, to the sophisticated, based on personality and other tests as well as more detailed profiles and wish lists. Unless youre unusually picky (or just very unusual), these one-click options will typically churn up a good selection of possible matches on a regular basis popular dating services attract many new members a day. You can usually opt to have these matchmaking searches run automatically on a regular basis and receive new match details by email another time-saver.
At some services, matchmaking features are part of a complete matchmaking service where the selection process is much stricter, usually because theyre geared towards serious relationships. Typically youll receive just a handful of potential partners over a length of time. For example, eHarmony (designed to help people into marriage) advises clients not to expect more than one or two matches a month. To accept this level of matchmaking you have to be happy with the idea of letting the have the final say about whos right for you and whos not.
Online dating services are about much more than dating. Theyre also an opportunity to gain some valuable insights into yourself and the type of person youre looking to meet which could help improve your love life, online and off. If this appeals to you, choose a dating service with personality and other tests for members to take.
For the most part, larger, well established online dating services have the most insightful and detailed personality tests because they have more resources to put into their design. Almost all personality tests are free to take and at many sites matchmaking tools draw on the results to find members who are compatible with each other. So, by taking several tests and judging the results, youll get a good idea of which site is going to do the best job of helping you find your perfect match. After all, if the results are a true reflection of what youre like, theyll be a true reflection of potential matches too.
There are two levels of communication to consider when choosing a dating service what you get for free and what you get as a paying member. On both fronts, some services offer a lot more than others.
Free communications matter because they let you get to know someone, or at least that the interest is mutual, before you spring for a subscription. (A subscription will let you communicate as much as you like.) At most services, free communications are limited to flirty icons and preset messages that members send to each other, but search around. Some services are much more generous than others.
Once you subscribe, the norm for communicating is by on-site email and instant messaging. Many of the top dating services, Yahoo! Personals included, have stuck with this simple set up and show no sign of changing any time soon. Others, like Match.com, are continuously adopting new technologies to offer members more communications options. Typically youll pay more so think about whether or not you really need to to be able to access their services anytime, anywhere.
Think about what sort of experience youd like to have with online dating services. Do you intend to focus on finding your perfect match or would you like to enjoy other activities as well? Many services offer entertainment features including light-hearted quizzes and polls, contests, articles and newsletters, as well as chat rooms and the option to sign up to meet new friends as well as dates.
If the idea of meeting someone online then having to meet them face-to-face at some stage is a little intimidating, look for a dating service that helps members meet and mingle, casually and as part of a group, offline too. Though some dating services go as far as offering singles holidays, offline activities usually involve meeting for concerts, shows and other events in your area or elsewhere.
You can get that all-important for someone in relaxed atmosphere with plenty of food for conversation and make as much or as little of the occasion as you like. If you havent met someone yet, offline activities are an opportunity to meet someone you might like to continue chatting with online, with the advantage that youve already met.
If youre away from your native country, would like to chat in your native language or are planning to relocate or travel to a different country, some of the more established and successful online dating services have extended their services into countries other than the US. For example, Yahoo! Personals has a new Canadian service while Match.com is live in 27 different countries.
Most online dating services charge about the same for a subscription between $20 and $25 a month so cost isnt going to be much of a deciding factor when choosing a dating service. Instead, look for value services might charge about the same but there are big differences in what you get for your money. Also, check out payment options. Several dating services accept money orders and checks as well as the usual credit cards.
Find out what discounts will be available if you sign up for several months at once, and if any special offers are available. Finally on this one, look for free trials and try out all the extra subscriber features before committing to a subscription.
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TMZ reports that because Adnan did not show up to a court hearing today, the judge extended Britney Spears restraining order against him for a total of three years. And, Popsquire followers know what that means. It’s time for an updated Britney timeline. Remember, flaschcards are always recommended!
2007
Feb. 14-15: Britney checks in and out of Antigua rehab within a 24-hour period.
Feb. 16: Britney shaves her head BALD.
Feb. 20-21: Britney checks in and out of Malibu rehab.
Feb. 21: Britney attacks photographer’s car with an umbrella.
Feb. 22-March 21: Britney stays in Malibu rehab.
May 2: Britney performs at House of Blues San Diego, launching a brief tour showcasing 10-15 minute performances in various cities.
July 6: Britney apologizes for attacking photographer’s car with an umbrella.
July 30: Britney’s divorce from K-Fed becomes final.
Aug. 6: Britney, who does not have a valid CA driver’s license, is involved in a minor fender bender with a parked car and leaves the scene.
Sept. 9: Britney performs at the MTV Video Music Awards.
Sept. 18: Britney is ordered by judge to submit to random drug tests; the judge concluded that she had engaged in “habitual, frequent, and continuous use of controlled substances and alcohol.” She also must attend parent counseling classes
Oct. 1: Britney is ordered by judge to give up custody of her kids, at least temporarily, for failure to comply with court orders.
Oct. 15: Britney turns herself in to be booked on charges arising out of the Aug. 6 fender bender.
Oct.17: Britney’s visitation rights are suspended by court commissioner until she complies with court orders, including answering phone calls from court-appointed monitor.
Oct. 20: Britney regains rights to visitation with her children and must be accompanied by court-ordered monitor.
Oct. 25: Britney’s hit-and-run misdemeanor charge related to Aug. 6 incident is dismissed, but she pleads not guilty to driving without valid CA driver’s license.
Oct. 29: Britney’s former manager, Johnny Wright, sues for alleged unpaid commission in excess of $15,000.
Nov. 9: Britney is accused of failing to respond to eight out of 14 drug test requests. As part of the Sept. 19 order, Britney must submit to twice-weekly drug tests and is required of providing a urine sample within six hours of being called.
Nov. 13: Britney’s album, Blackout, is released and sells almost 300,000 copies in first week.
Nov. 24: Britney is caught driving through Los Angeles stop signs.
Dec. 7: Britney is caught on camera taking a lighter without paying.
Dec. 8: Britney is caught on camera running more Los Angeles stop signs.
Dec. 11: Britney’s pet store of choice, Pets of Bel Air, is accused of buying puppies from puppy mills.
Dec. 12: Britney fails to show up at her deposition in her custody case.
Dec. 18: Britney is ordered to appear for deposition in her custody case in January. Meanwhile, a Florida court clerk enters default against Britney for failing to respond to the lawsuit for alleged unpaid commissions filed by Johnny Wright in October.
2008
Jan. 15: Complaint filed against Dr. Phil, arising out of his hospital visit with Britney.
Jan. 21: Britney attends deposition for approximately 2.5 hours.
Jan. 23: Britney unsuccessfully seeks to modify court’s no-visitation order. Britney’s lawyers withdraw motion to be relieved as counsel, previously scheduled for Feb. 4.
Jan. 31: Britney is placed on another 5150 hold, this time at UCLA Medical Center.
Feb. 1: (a) Britney’s dad and independent lawyer are appointed as conservators of her estate; and (b) Court issues temporary restraining order against Sam Lutfi, prohibiting him from getting near Britney.
Feb. 3: Britney’s 5150 hold is extended by 14 days.
Feb. 4: (a) After a court challenge, Brit’s dad and independent attorney remain conservators of her estate at least until Feb. 14; and (b) Amid alleged concerns that Sam Lutfi contacted Britney by telephone, the court confirmed that Lutfi is not permitted to contact Britney, even by telephone or email.
Feb. 6: (a) UCLA releases Britney from the extended 5150 hold; (b) Maria Shriver introduces herself to Britney; and (c) Britney’s parents release statement to press.
Feb. 7: Attorneys appear in court regarding Britney; information remains under seal.
Feb. 13: Court continues Britney’s family law attorneys’ request to be removed as counsel until Feb. 19.
Feb. 14: (a) Court extends conservatorship until March 10; (b) Bryan Spears and attorney named co-trustees of Britney’s trust; (c) Britney is ordered to undergo a 730 evaluation; and (d) an attorney files a notice to remove Britney’s legal troubles to federal court.
Feb. 19: (a) Stacy Philips becomes Britney’s new attorney; (b) court denies request for gag order; and (c) parties unable to reach an agreement to permit Britney to resume visitation with kids.
Feb. 20: Federal court issues tentative order to deny the notice of removal previously filed by attorney Jon Eardley and sets deadline for Eardley to convince the court to change its mind.
Feb. 21: Sam Lutfi is finally served with restraining order, and court issues extension of order until March 17.
Feb. 23: Britney resumes visitation with children, supervised by her father and a mental health professional.
Feb. 26: The federal court judge kicks the Britney Spears conservatorship case back to state court. The judge’s decision is plain and simple: “Mr. Eardley is not Ms. Spears attorney and acted improperly by removing her conservatorship proceeding to federal court.”
March 5: Court approves an extension of the conservatorship until July 31, 2008.
March 15: UCLA Hospital takes steps to fire at least 13 employees for snooping into Britney’s private medical records.
March 17: (a) Court extends restraining order against Sam Lutfi for another month; (b) Court approves Jamie Spears’ decision to sell off some of Britney’s cars; and (c) Court ordered Britney to pay K-Fed’s attorneys’ fees totaling approximately $375,000, a discount from the$500,000 requested.
April 12: Britney is involved in minor fender bender, allegedly while applying makeup and driving.
April 17: Court extends restraining order against Lutfi until July 31.
May 29: The commissioner presiding over Britney Spears’ conservatorship determines that she remains unable to participate “in any meaningful way” in legal proceedings and may need further tests. During a 90-minute closed-door session with lawyers, the commissioner also says that Britney’s doctor “wants to do additional testing.”
June 6: Jamie Spears asks the Court to authorize payment to him for his services as conservator from January 31 to March 3, 2008.
June 16: The Los Angeles DA’s office rejects a charge against Britney Spears for allegedly running over a paparazzo’s foot in November 2007 outside of the Beverly Hills Hotel.
June 17: The conservatorship overseeing Britney Spears’ finances receives court permission to sell Britney’s house located in the Summit, a gated community near Beverly Hills.
June 18: While Britney is en route to Louisiana to be with her sister, one of her many attorneys obtains an extension of time to resolve charges arising out of her alleged August 2007 hit-and-run accident. The new court date is August 11.
June 24: Widely respected family law attorney, Laura Wasser, returns to Britney’s legal team, and Los Angeles Commissioner Scott Gordon approves a new visitation/custody agreement that gives Britney overnight visits with her sons.
July 18: Britney and K-Fed agree to settle their custody battle and submit the agreement to the court for approval.
July 25: Court approves custody agreement, providing K-Fed with sole physical custody and $20,000 per month in child support. Britney gets increased visitation with the kids.
July 31: Court decides to keep conservatorship in effect until December 31. Another hearing is expected for October 28 to address the possibility of an earlier termination date.
Aug 14: In the first interview since her two-year downward spiral began, Britney Spears opens up to OK! Magazine and reveals that: (1) she hopes her sons, Sean Preston and Jayden James, do not choose a career in entertainment; (2) she believes her sons will be like “big brothers” to Jamie Lynn’s baby, Maddie; and (3) she is writing songs for her new album, describing it as her “best work ever.”
Sept. 2: A Los Angeles Superior Court judge rejected Britney’s motion to dismiss a misdemeanor charge against her for driving with an invalid license last year.
Sept. 7: Britney wins three MTV Video Music Awards.
Sept. 17: Lynne Spears appears on the Today Show, admitting she first lost control when Britney posed for Rolling Stone at age 17 in her bra and panties.
Sept. 18: Court sets October 15 trial date for Britney’s misdemeanor invalid driver’s license case.
Sept. 24: Britney puts her house on the market, following the court’s approval to do so in June.
Sept. 29: Britney’s attorney asks for a stay of proceedings on the invalid driver’s license trial, but the request is denied.
Oct. 1: Adnan Ghalib quashes rumors of a sex tape starring him and Brit.
Oct. 8: Britney’s attorney rejects a plea bargain to settle the misdemeanor driver’s license case because the offer included criminal sanctions.
Oct. 10: Britney debuts Womanizer video on ABC’s 20/20.
Oct. 15-16: Britney’s misdemeanor invalid driver’s license trial is underway; to persuade jurors that Britney did not need a CA license, Jamie Spears testifies that Britney’s real home is in Louisiana.
Oct. 17: Britney’s misdemeanor driver’s license trial ends, and jurors begin deliberations.
Oct. 20: Jurors are deadlocked 12-2, and the judge orders them to continue deliberating.
Oct. 21: Judge declares mistrial in Britney’s misdemeanor driver’s license case, and prosecutors confirm they won’t seek another trial; GMA schedules Britney to perform live on Dec. 2.
Oct. 28: Judge decides to make the conservatorship “permanent,” without any objection from Britney.
Nov. 6: Britney makes surprise appearance during Madonna’s Sticky and Sweet LA concert.
Nov. 25: After several illegal leaks of Britney’s new album surface on the internet, Britney provides a legal sneak peek on imeem.com.
Nov. 30: The documentary, “Britney: For The Record,” airs on MTV.
Dec. 2: Britney celebrates her 27th birthday with the release of Circus and a live Good Morning America performance.
2009
Jan. 23: The Parents Television Council warns radio stations no to play Britney’s new single, If You Seek Amy, because when said slowly, it sounds like F-U-C-K ME.
Jan. 30: Britney obtains restraining orders against Lutfi and Ghalib.
Feb. 3: Lufti files a lawsuit against Britney and her family for breach of contract, defamation, and battery. He claims: (1) he had a four-year oral contract with Britney to manage her career and take 15% of her money; (2) Lynne smeared his reputation in her book, Through The Storm; and (3) Jamie punched him in the chest.
Feb. 9: Britney and K-Fed sign an agreement that will allow Brit to keep her current custody arrangement, even while she’s on tour. The kids will follow Britney to three hubs — New Jersey, New Orleans and Los Angeles — and Britney will commute back and forth during the tour. Plus, K-Fed gets an additional $5,000 as part of the deal.
Feb. 10: Brit’s conservatorship received court permission today to hire two lawyers to defend her in the Lutfi lawsuit. The combined hourly rate for the attorneys is more than $900!
Feb. 23: Judge hears testimony on extending restraining order against Lutfi and Ghalib.
Feb. 24: Police issue a warrant for Ghalib’s arrest for allegedly running his car into a process server, and the DA charges him with three felonies: (1) assault with a deadly weapon; (2) battery; and (3) hit and run.
Feb. 25: Ghalib pleads not gulty to three felony charges and posts $110,000 in bail; judge extends restraining orders against Lutfi and Ghalib.
March 2: BritneySpears.com releases official sneak peek of her upcoming tour and announces that Britney is the new face of Candie’s.
March 3: Britney kicks off the Circus tour in New Orleans.
March 18: Judge extends restraining order against Adnan Ghalib for three years.
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Notice the way your breath changes right before you orgasm. You can see things that are not visible if you really try to notice. Do you really notice what has been right in front of you all of this time? The cost of one noticing is one then has to become more responsible. If you step away from it, will you notice it more? When you're happy, you hardly notice when the weather sucks. You do not notice changes in what is always before you (Colette). I want to mark your skin so you can notice it later and remember. Achieve something that someone somewhere might notice someday. Do whatever you please and don't care about whether or not it is ever noticed. I want you to notice...when I'm not around (Radiohead). I noticed. I noticed. I noticed. Some pretty profound things are happening all around us and we are programmed not to notice. If you truly loathe your job, hand in your notice already! Notice the way the cycles of the seasons parallel your most pressing exisistential concerns. There is a fine line between pleasure and pain and the beauty is when you no longer notice. People will notice how you make them feel even after they forget whatever you did or said. Notice patterns; be curious. Have you ever noticed the irony of timing? Be willing to drop everything at a moment's notice for the right person. The things done at a moment's notice are the things you will remember most fondly. Notice everything about at least one person. Notice that which causes you to avert your eyes. You're subtle, but I notice anyway. Notice the necessary and wonderful way beauty and imperfections go together.
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Yesterday, Politicos Becca Milfeld posted a Valentimey collection of the first-date stories of Washington power couples. Al Hunt and Judy Woodruff were escorted on their first date by friends, Joseph Liebermans wife asked him to move her furniture, and John Dingell brought Deborah to see What, no ill-advised drunken hook-ups that led, unexpectedly, to high-profile romance? I call bullshit. Lets read between the lines, shall we?
POWER COUPLE: Al Hunt (Washington editor, Bloomberg News) and Judy Woodruff (senior correspondent, PBS)
ON THE RECORD HOOKUP: Hunt had long suffered from migraine headaches and had one when they went out on their first date, a meal with friends at an Italian restaurant in Washington, on March 19, 1977. But he hasn’t had a migraine since.
REALITY: What, no wine with dinner? Woodruff must have served up some kind of medicine.
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After the lose of his family, Tavist Darke lived on the fringe of society and rarely socialize with anyone for a long time. When he is adopted into the Montgomery Pack, he is satisfied to have not only brothers but a family and a pack to call his own again. He is further blessed when he overhears a conversation between a set of kids and makes it his business to find out about them. He finds himself not only meeting Tracy and her kids but find the last thing that has been missing from his life - a mate.
Tracy West is trying to keep it together life, kids, job and more importantly a low profile from her abusive husband. When the next door neighbour takes an interest in her family she is reluctant but flattered by the attention. She tentatively opens up to him and let him into her family unit she is happy for probably the first time in her life despite the air of revenge and spite that hovers over her family.
Tracy and Tavist are living on cloud nine but every cloud has that one dark spot and its Tavist secret that hes not yet told Tracey about. Can Tracey deal with all that Tavist his along with everything that is already on her plate or will she fold and cut herself and her children off from Tavist.
This series just keeps getting better and better, with every book Ms. Massa puts a new dimension to her story, Montgomery Mountain has never seen so much traffic as when all these brothers decide to mate and grandchildren comes in to the picture.
Elke and Mik are in rapture to know that one of there own has finally found his mate and she comes with children. Tavist and Tracey are not holding out much hope for the relationship however.
Tavist with the lose of his family and his pain through the years, is more than ready to settle down with his mate, he loves Tracey from the moment he sees her and accepts her and her children and want to do the right thing by them. When he has to let Tracey know about the other side of him she cannot accept it and he is crushed
Tracey has always prided herself on being able to take care of her children and surviving whatever life throws at her that is until Tavist step into her life he ends up being the best thing to have ever happen to her, however when she learns of his true nature, it just becomes another event for her to deal with and get her kids through it Tavist is not having it and he has added incentive not to back down his family wants him to be happy and Tracey and her kids make him happy.
A heart wrenching third book in this series and while there is the predictability of knowing that some element of danger will happen there is no way you can prepare yourself for the force of this book. It just explodes, fast, little snippet of info, hoping thing work out and knowing that you have to wait until the next books to have some matter resolves.
We are gentle being introduced to the next generation of the Montgomery clan and from here on in its all sexual tension, emotional upheavals, fantasy becoming reality and Montgomery Mountain becoming more than just the home of but also the place where dreams come true.
A Family Portrait is just simply wonderful.
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big attractions of Christmas for many of us is the Midnight Mass. Its special because its Christmas; its special because its at a time most of us are usually getting ready for bed (unless were out clubbing); its special because of the carols and the choirs and the candlelight.
So, where to go for the best Midnight Mass in London? Lets start with Westminster Cathedral, a huge Catholic basilica with a finely trained choir and a magnificent organ. Here, the mass setting is Charpentiers Messe de Minuit, lovely French baroque music - an unusual choice in England. Mass starts at 1130; if you want to hear the choir in Renaissance music, though, turn up at 1030 on Christmas Day for the Palestrina Missa Hodie Christus natus est (Christ is born today).
The other big church choice is Westminster Abbey, again both starting at 1130. Purely for the music, Id probably choose the Abbey - Mozarts Coronation Mass is perhaps my favourite setting, a magnificent piece of music full of drums and trumpets and pomp and circumstance, but also incredibly moving and deep. The sublime Gothic architecture and the real feeling of an ancient English cathedral make this a great experience - if youve not visited England before, this is the real thing!
Yet another Mozart mass, the Colloredo Mass, at Brompton Oratory (nearest tube: South Kensington), together with Bachs In dulci jubilo on the organ. This service doesnt start till twelve, though there will be carols from 1130. This is a posh Catholic church - Knightsbridge is a very chi-chi area and unless Im much mistaken, this is Tony and Cherie Blairs local church.
My favourite though has always been St Albans, Brooke Street. Its a glorious Victorian church, full of incense for the occasion, and which really knows how to do ritual. Besides which, there will be carol singing before the service, from 1110, while the Mass starts at 1130.
The music this year will be Mozarts Missa Brevis, with an anthem by Palestrina, but what Im really looking forward to is Viernes Carillon de Westminster on the organ. That might not sound very familiar, but in fact Londoners will readily recognise the tune - its the chimes of Big Ben, arranged in splendid, noisy French style.
And if youre anywhere nearby, I recommend you walk back home. Just for once, the streets of London will be quiet and hushed - and if the sky is clear, you can see the stars shining down, and watch your breath making clouds of vapour in the air, and feel happy.
I used to walk back to Stoke Newington - its a good walk, about an hour - and put myself to bed with a glass of whisky. Thats the right way to start Christmas.
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The other big church choice is Westminster Abbey, again both starting at 1130. Purely for the music, Id probably choose the Abbey - Mozarts Coronation Mass is perhaps my favourite setting, a magnificent piece of music full of drums and trumpets and pomp and circumstance, but also incredibly moving and deep. The sublime Gothic architecture and the real feeling of an ancient English cathedral make this a great experience - if youve not visited England before, this is the real thing!
Yet another Mozart mass, the Colloredo Mass, at Brompton Oratory (nearest tube: South Kensington), together with Bachs In dulci jubilo on the organ. This service doesnt start till twelve, though there will be carols from 1130. This is a posh Catholic church - Knightsbridge is a very chi-chi area and unless Im much mistaken, this is Tony and Cherie Blairs local church.
My favourite though has always been St Albans, Brooke Street. Its a glorious Victorian church, full of incense for the occasion, and which really knows how to do ritual. Besides which, there will be carol singing before the service, from 1110, while the Mass starts at 1130.
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And if youre anywhere nearby, I recommend you walk back home. Just for once, the streets of London will be quiet and hushed - and if the sky is clear, you can see the stars shining down, and watch your breath making clouds of vapour in the air, and feel happy.
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making his way to the ring.
DARIUS ORTIZ: The Golden Boy walks to Mariachi music.
DARIUS ORTIZ: De La Hoya is in the ring and saluting the crowd. Tomas Mendoza waves the flag from the corner.
DARIUS ORTIZ: Shane Mosley and Bernard Hopkins looking swanky in suits.
DARIUS ORTIZ: Lets hear it Michael Buffer: Lets get ready to rumble!
DARIUS ORTIZ: Pacquiao introduced first. He looks calm and even breaks a smile as hes announced.
DARIUS ORTIZ: How can you not love Pacquiao?
DARIUS ORTIZ: De La Hoya introduced next. Boos ring through the crowd.
DARIUS ORTIZ: The Golden Boy looks stoic but intense.
DARIUS ORTIZ: The men touch gloves.
ROUND 1: And were off!
ROUND 1: Oscar dishing out his jab. De La Hoya pressing forward.
ROUND 1: De La Hoya looks gigantic in front of Pacquiao. PacMan looks like a boy.
ROUND 1: De la Hoya doles out his jab. Pacquiao picking his spots.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao unleashes a combo then moves out quickly.
ROUND 1: De La Hoya is raking the body.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao grazes Oscar with a hook.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao is finding his range. He stays outside, finds an opening, leaps in and strikes.
ROUND 1: De La Hoya wobbles Pacquiao against the ropes.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao is using solid lateral movement. Pacquiao wobbles Oscar with a left.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao finishes the round on his bicycle.
ROUND 2: De La Hoya backs Pacquiao up with a left but Pacquiao fires back with his own left.
ROUND 2: De La Hoya isnt moving enough and is getting caught flush with left leads.
ROUND 2: PacMan now has De la Hoya backing up.
ROUND 2: De La Hoya throws a three-punch combination but Pacquiao blocks the majority of it.
ROUND 2: Pacquiao lands another left lead. His speed is overwhelming Oscar.
ROUND 2: Pacquiao is potshotting. A body shot forces him to lower his guard.
ROUND 2: Pacquiao lands an uppercut to a stationary De La Hoya.
ROUND 2: Oscars feet are in sand. De La Hoya is a much more elusive target.
ROUND 2: Manny hooking with his right. You dont hook with a hooker, Manny.
ROUND 2: Manny lands a jab just before the bell.
ROUND 3: Dan Rafael puts it perfectly: The difference in hand speed is amazing.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya lands a thudding jab but Manny Pacquiao walks through it.
ROUND 3: Pacquiao lands a head-snapping left lead. De La Hoya waddles forward.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya seems frustrated. Hes throwing bombs but most miss.
ROUND 3: Pacquiao working his jab. De La Hoya looking to hook off of it.
ROUND 3: Finally, De La Hoya is utilizing his jab.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya lands a right to the body. Manny responds with his own body shot.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya works the jab then follows it with a hook. Better round for Oscar.
ROUND 4: De La Hoya lumbering forward to begin Round 4. He leaps in with a combo but misses wildly.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao lands a pair of left hands to De La Hoyas exposed chin. De La Hoyas hands are way too low.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao, the smaller fighter, is outjabbing De La Hoya.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao has lost all respect for De La Hoya as he leaps in with uppercuts.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao is on his toes, peppering De La Hoya with hooks and crosses.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao digs in and unloads body punches. De La Hoya seems stunned.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao is handing circles around De La Hoya.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao is dropping his hands but he cant pull the trigger. Freddie Roach called it!
ROUND 5: Round 5, Manny on his bicycle.
ROUND 5: De La Hoyas guard is higher and hes pumping the jab. He looks a little better now.
ROUND 5: A two-punch combo wobbles Oscar.
ROUND 5: Oscar looks downright old.
ROUND 5: Forget pull the trigger, De La Hoya doesnt even have a gun.
ROUND 5: Pacquiao leaps in with a left. De La Hoya sees it coming but he cant get out of the way.
ROUND 5: Oscar trudges forward, right into incoming fire.
ROUND 5: Oscar lands a body shot and follows it with four hooks.
ROUND 5: Both men trade at the bell. Oscar looks extremely frustrated.
ROUND 6: Both men trading jab to begin Round 6.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao coming forward but he looks a little winded. Hes expended a ton of energy in the first five rounds.
ROUND 6: De La Hoya moving back now. hes waiting for Pacquiao to move in.
ROUND 6: Both men trade body blows. Pacquiao raises his fists.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao just misses with a right hook. The follow-up left doesnt miss its mark.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao lands a thudding right hand to De La Hoyas skull.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao blitzes De La Hoya with a four-punch combo just before the bell.
ROUND 6: Dan Rafael says Oscar is totally shot. Im not so sure. Obviously, this isnt the Oscar of 10 years ago, but Pacquiaos just the better man tonight.
ROUND 7: Pacquiao using his jab beautifully now. De La Hoya just cant find his feet.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya putting his jab out there. Pacquiao waltzes around it.
ROUND 7: A hook/uppercut combo backs up Oscar. Pacquiao is trying to finish him!
ROUND 7: Pacquiaos punches are landing with authority. Oscar looks pathetic.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya has no legs underneath him.
ROUND 7: Oscar has stopped punching back.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya waves him in. Bad idea.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya throws an uppercut but misses badly.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao working his jab. De La Hoya still not punching.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao lands a left, then a right.
ROUND 8: De La Hoya comes to life but Pacquiao responds with his own fire.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao lands a four-punch combo to De La Hoyas ribs.
ROUND 8: This is Oscars last stand. he has no answer and looks out of his league.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao looking for one more left hand to finish the fight.
ROUND 8: Oscar lands a half-hearted combo. Pacquiao mocks him. Pacquiao tries to finish the fight just before the bell.
ROUND 8: Lots of discussion going on in the corner.
ROUND 8: De La Hoya quits!
ROUND 8: Pacquiao crying in his corner!
ROUND 8: Total devastation, as Dan just put it.
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DARIUS ORTIZ: The Golden Boy walks to Mariachi music.
DARIUS ORTIZ: De La Hoya is in the ring and saluting the crowd. Tomas Mendoza waves the flag from the corner.
DARIUS ORTIZ: Shane Mosley and Bernard Hopkins looking swanky in suits.
DARIUS ORTIZ: Lets hear it Michael Buffer: Lets get ready to rumble!
DARIUS ORTIZ: Pacquiao introduced first. He looks calm and even breaks a smile as hes announced.
DARIUS ORTIZ: How can you not love Pacquiao?
DARIUS ORTIZ: De La Hoya introduced next. Boos ring through the crowd.
DARIUS ORTIZ: The Golden Boy looks stoic but intense.
DARIUS ORTIZ: The men touch gloves.
ROUND 1: And were off!
ROUND 1: Oscar dishing out his jab. De La Hoya pressing forward.
ROUND 1: De La Hoya looks gigantic in front of Pacquiao. PacMan looks like a boy.
ROUND 1: De la Hoya doles out his jab. Pacquiao picking his spots.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao unleashes a combo then moves out quickly.
ROUND 1: De La Hoya is raking the body.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao grazes Oscar with a hook.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao is finding his range. He stays outside, finds an opening, leaps in and strikes.
ROUND 1: De La Hoya wobbles Pacquiao against the ropes.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao is using solid lateral movement. Pacquiao wobbles Oscar with a left.
ROUND 1: Pacquiao finishes the round on his bicycle.
ROUND 2: De La Hoya backs Pacquiao up with a left but Pacquiao fires back with his own left.
ROUND 2: De La Hoya isnt moving enough and is getting caught flush with left leads.
ROUND 2: PacMan now has De la Hoya backing up.
ROUND 2: De La Hoya throws a three-punch combination but Pacquiao blocks the majority of it.
ROUND 2: Pacquiao lands another left lead. His speed is overwhelming Oscar.
ROUND 2: Pacquiao is potshotting. A body shot forces him to lower his guard.
ROUND 2: Pacquiao lands an uppercut to a stationary De La Hoya.
ROUND 2: Oscars feet are in sand. De La Hoya is a much more elusive target.
ROUND 2: Manny hooking with his right. You dont hook with a hooker, Manny.
ROUND 2: Manny lands a jab just before the bell.
ROUND 3: Dan Rafael puts it perfectly: The difference in hand speed is amazing.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya lands a thudding jab but Manny Pacquiao walks through it.
ROUND 3: Pacquiao lands a head-snapping left lead. De La Hoya waddles forward.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya seems frustrated. Hes throwing bombs but most miss.
ROUND 3: Pacquiao working his jab. De La Hoya looking to hook off of it.
ROUND 3: Finally, De La Hoya is utilizing his jab.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya lands a right to the body. Manny responds with his own body shot.
ROUND 3: De La Hoya works the jab then follows it with a hook. Better round for Oscar.
ROUND 4: De La Hoya lumbering forward to begin Round 4. He leaps in with a combo but misses wildly.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao lands a pair of left hands to De La Hoyas exposed chin. De La Hoyas hands are way too low.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao, the smaller fighter, is outjabbing De La Hoya.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao has lost all respect for De La Hoya as he leaps in with uppercuts.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao is on his toes, peppering De La Hoya with hooks and crosses.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao digs in and unloads body punches. De La Hoya seems stunned.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao is handing circles around De La Hoya.
ROUND 4: Pacquiao is dropping his hands but he cant pull the trigger. Freddie Roach called it!
ROUND 5: Round 5, Manny on his bicycle.
ROUND 5: De La Hoyas guard is higher and hes pumping the jab. He looks a little better now.
ROUND 5: A two-punch combo wobbles Oscar.
ROUND 5: Oscar looks downright old.
ROUND 5: Forget pull the trigger, De La Hoya doesnt even have a gun.
ROUND 5: Pacquiao leaps in with a left. De La Hoya sees it coming but he cant get out of the way.
ROUND 5: Oscar trudges forward, right into incoming fire.
ROUND 5: Oscar lands a body shot and follows it with four hooks.
ROUND 5: Both men trade at the bell. Oscar looks extremely frustrated.
ROUND 6: Both men trading jab to begin Round 6.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao coming forward but he looks a little winded. Hes expended a ton of energy in the first five rounds.
ROUND 6: De La Hoya moving back now. hes waiting for Pacquiao to move in.
ROUND 6: Both men trade body blows. Pacquiao raises his fists.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao just misses with a right hook. The follow-up left doesnt miss its mark.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao lands a thudding right hand to De La Hoyas skull.
ROUND 6: Pacquiao blitzes De La Hoya with a four-punch combo just before the bell.
ROUND 6: Dan Rafael says Oscar is totally shot. Im not so sure. Obviously, this isnt the Oscar of 10 years ago, but Pacquiaos just the better man tonight.
ROUND 7: Pacquiao using his jab beautifully now. De La Hoya just cant find his feet.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya putting his jab out there. Pacquiao waltzes around it.
ROUND 7: A hook/uppercut combo backs up Oscar. Pacquiao is trying to finish him!
ROUND 7: Pacquiaos punches are landing with authority. Oscar looks pathetic.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya has no legs underneath him.
ROUND 7: Oscar has stopped punching back.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya waves him in. Bad idea.
ROUND 7: De La Hoya throws an uppercut but misses badly.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao working his jab. De La Hoya still not punching.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao lands a left, then a right.
ROUND 8: De La Hoya comes to life but Pacquiao responds with his own fire.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao lands a four-punch combo to De La Hoyas ribs.
ROUND 8: This is Oscars last stand. he has no answer and looks out of his league.
ROUND 8: Pacquiao looking for one more left hand to finish the fight.
ROUND 8: Oscar lands a half-hearted combo. Pacquiao mocks him. Pacquiao tries to finish the fight just before the bell.
ROUND 8: Lots of discussion going on in the corner.
ROUND 8: De La Hoya quits!
ROUND 8: Pacquiao crying in his corner!
ROUND 8: Total devastation, as Dan just put it.
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PALE SMOKE
by Raven Kaldera
When you walk through a cloud of smoke, Feather whispered in my ear, what does your body feel like to it? Do you feel like a lover? Like a violator? Does it caress you with desperate need, longing for you to notice, to respond to its love and desire? She took a drag on her slender gilt pipe and exhaled a breath of felissium smoke my way.
I decided not to breathe for the moment. Not that the smoke would make me high, anyway, but I was beginning to hate its sickly-sweetish smell. I turned my head away, though, for Feathers benefit. She stroked my hair where it tumbled over my shoulders, and laughed at me, lazily. Like a cat who knows the mouse isnt going anywhere.
Look at me, darling, she murmured. I didnt respond. I hated playing her games, knowing I could never win except by outlasting her, outwaiting her. My reticence annoyed her, as I knew it would. Look at me, Tonio, she commanded, yanking me back by a fistful of my hair. I fell into the pillows and my gaze caught hers unwillingly. She stared at me until my eyes unfocused; I wondered if she was trying to hypnotize me.
Then she took another drag on her pipe and lowered her lips to mine, glistening scarlet and irresistible. I let her kiss me without thinking - one could go into trance while kissing Feather - and then realized my error when she breathed the whole cloud of felissium smoke into my lungs. I pushed her aside, coughing and expelling it, and she laughed at me again, like the tinkle of bells on a wind chime. So sensitive, she murmured, to such a little thing.t do that, I said, not expecting shed do anything but laugh again, and I was right. Then she was on me, biting playfully at my chest, my ear, my throat, sucking on the flesh. I didnt worry that shed be able to bite through it; shed tried before, and failed. Besides, I knew she wanted me to give her immortality willingly, to offer it on my knees. In her dreams, I thought to myself, and sighed.
Feather came up off me, annoyed again. Ungrateful bastard, she said, and bounced up out of bed, black silk pegnoir slipping over my thighs like a whisper of spite. She grabbed a hairbrush and began to give her black hair the hundred-stroke treatment, something she only did when angry. One shoulder of the pegnoir had slipped down, revealing her white flesh. I stared at the back of her pale neck and counted to twenty, then repeated the entire Zavaret meditation mantra, word for word, six times. It wasnt helping much.
Black hair, smooth and glossy like a river to the small of her back - she was so proud of it - and skin like old ivory, long tilted dark eyes. Feather never wore perfume any more, knowing that it obscured the metallic blood-smell just beneath her smooth flesh. It was one of the ways in which she tormented me; she knew I could smell it across a room. I tended not to breathe a lot when I was with her.
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by Raven Kaldera
When you walk through a cloud of smoke, Feather whispered in my ear, what does your body feel like to it? Do you feel like a lover? Like a violator? Does it caress you with desperate need, longing for you to notice, to respond to its love and desire? She took a drag on her slender gilt pipe and exhaled a breath of felissium smoke my way.
I decided not to breathe for the moment. Not that the smoke would make me high, anyway, but I was beginning to hate its sickly-sweetish smell. I turned my head away, though, for Feathers benefit. She stroked my hair where it tumbled over my shoulders, and laughed at me, lazily. Like a cat who knows the mouse isnt going anywhere.
Look at me, darling, she murmured. I didnt respond. I hated playing her games, knowing I could never win except by outlasting her, outwaiting her. My reticence annoyed her, as I knew it would. Look at me, Tonio, she commanded, yanking me back by a fistful of my hair. I fell into the pillows and my gaze caught hers unwillingly. She stared at me until my eyes unfocused; I wondered if she was trying to hypnotize me.
Then she took another drag on her pipe and lowered her lips to mine, glistening scarlet and irresistible. I let her kiss me without thinking - one could go into trance while kissing Feather - and then realized my error when she breathed the whole cloud of felissium smoke into my lungs. I pushed her aside, coughing and expelling it, and she laughed at me again, like the tinkle of bells on a wind chime. So sensitive, she murmured, to such a little thing.t do that, I said, not expecting shed do anything but laugh again, and I was right. Then she was on me, biting playfully at my chest, my ear, my throat, sucking on the flesh. I didnt worry that shed be able to bite through it; shed tried before, and failed. Besides, I knew she wanted me to give her immortality willingly, to offer it on my knees. In her dreams, I thought to myself, and sighed.
Feather came up off me, annoyed again. Ungrateful bastard, she said, and bounced up out of bed, black silk pegnoir slipping over my thighs like a whisper of spite. She grabbed a hairbrush and began to give her black hair the hundred-stroke treatment, something she only did when angry. One shoulder of the pegnoir had slipped down, revealing her white flesh. I stared at the back of her pale neck and counted to twenty, then repeated the entire Zavaret meditation mantra, word for word, six times. It wasnt helping much.
Black hair, smooth and glossy like a river to the small of her back - she was so proud of it - and skin like old ivory, long tilted dark eyes. Feather never wore perfume any more, knowing that it obscured the metallic blood-smell just beneath her smooth flesh. It was one of the ways in which she tormented me; she knew I could smell it across a room. I tended not to breathe a lot when I was with her.
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